tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25742645584056403542024-03-14T03:38:06.531+11:00Ursula Ciller's BlogLife, Art & BooksUrsula Cillerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01275645532802787375noreply@blogger.comBlogger30125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2574264558405640354.post-74663991063658342502019-07-11T14:17:00.001+10:002019-07-11T15:02:30.553+10:00Getting Rid of Gallstones NaturallyOur livers produce bile which is stored in the gallbladder and secreted into the small intestine when we eat certain foods, in particular fats. Bile helps emulsify the fats for better digestion and absorption. This assists with absorbing fat-soluble vitamins. Bile, which is made of cholesterol and bile pigments, also allows our bodies to eliminate wastes that can not be excreted through the urine.<br />
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Sometimes crystals of bile pigments and/or cholesterol form, leading to gallstones. These may occur due to poor diet/lifestyle or because of a metabolic imbalance.<br />
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I was looking for a solution to eliminate gallstones since my husband was found (via an ultrasound for another issue) to have a gallbladder full of them and was in no shape to undergo surgery - the only option given to patients in modern hospital systems. Having advanced cancer he was not going to have an operation which would put him at high risk of infection and bleeding.<br />
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I found out <b>Dr Clarks website</b> and he followed the instructions and sure enough got rid of a heap of gallstones, including two that were ~2.5 cm (most were 1-1.5 cm).<br />
So instead of hospitalisation and surgery, two days at home was all it took. Here's the link:<br />
<a href="https://www.drclark.net/en-us/cleanses/liver-cleanse-42481"><b>Dr Clark's Liver/Gallbladder Cleanse</b></a><br />
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And here (right) is a sample of the eliminated gallstones...<br />
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Happy days! š<br />
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Ursula Cillerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01275645532802787375noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2574264558405640354.post-45814565544455734742019-07-10T14:50:00.001+10:002019-07-11T18:21:02.431+10:00Book Review - Triangles of Black: Once in a Thousand Years<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Sometimes you finish a book - just lost for words, gasping at where it left you... confronted, hoping, wondering, even wishing. One of these is <b>Triangles of Black: Once in a Thousand Years</b>, an epic adventure of how Troy, his sister Sophie and her indigenous friend Tracy, become involved in the black triangles.<br />
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What happens when people with power crush people with knowledge and wisdom? Injustice, conspiracy, opposition, defenceā¦ for those who survive. The three must find solutions to problems and learn that they are the key to a lost lock (metaphorically speaking).<br />
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Living in Australia, the characters have a down-town feel. The odd family get-togethers, parties, nuisance cousins, back streets, workplaces, bushlands and friends (known and estranged) and the thugs that lurk nearby (sponging up profits or spawning evil) make this read <i>entertainment tonight</i> (and probably not tomorrow cause I would have read the book by then).<br />
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Having an indigenous heroin Tracy is also totally awesome. I love her spirituality, intelligence and strong will. Her and Sophie canāt believe it when Jason (Tracyās half brother) starts dating Katie, because everyone thinks sheās the biggest tartā¦ and she works for her dadās bank with the triangle logoā¦<br />
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The friendly couple, Jerry and Jennie, are farmers that Troy works for. Jerry is also an inventor of a revolutionary generator that has caught the attention of ā no, not Souronās eye ā but close enough, the eye of corporate giant John (Katieās dad), the power station owner and bank manager who leaves a path of destruction in his wake with the help of his evil twin brother (another bigwig who works at ASIO). Letās just say those humble farmers surprised me big time, and I just love that old beaten-up truck of Jerryās! Go you good thing āŗ<br />
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Then there is the spunky gentle Lala who Troy meets on a charity run. Independent and fearless, sheās a book you canāt judge by the cover. And the Scottish fisherman Finn ā Iād love to sit down to a cup of tea with him on deck and listen to some of his salty yarns. Morphous Island hosts a popular holiday resort and also a <b>no-go zone</b> - a zone akin to the infamous Bermuda Triangleā¦ This book takes me many exciting and interesting places but the place I hate the most is āThe Vaultā a dark and cruel ex-jail compound that was rumoured to be hauntedā¦<br />
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The plot is deep and the characters as complex as life itself. This book sucked me into its magic whirlpool. It reveals so much yet is shrouded in mystery. And lets talk about the magicā¦ The artefacts are exquisite, and how Troy, Sophie and Tracy discover the magic is awesome. The misunderstandings this initially creates and the desperate times when magic becomes real ā so intense, I wish I could tell you about those vivid scenes but it would be a real spoilerā¦ but I can say the suspense at times is a killer.<br />
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The three magical guardians are super cool and one of the many highlights. Zenith the armoured knight and his grey charger rock. Heās a distant somewhat rude character while Shiven the dragon and Welder the chriptoqas ā a splendid black unicorn mare with bat wings, fire mane and tail (itās no spoiler - they appear on the first page) are a more amiable team. Each of these have attributes designed to fulfil their specific duties. Without these ancients the trio are on their own, but the guardians senses are sharper then the mortalsā¦<br />
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<b>This is fantasy with non-fiction themes, a potent reality woven into the fabric of this world. I really canāt do this book enough justice, suffice to sayā¦ TOTALLY LOVED IT!!!</b><br />
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Ursula Cillerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01275645532802787375noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2574264558405640354.post-22259719002815934272015-11-06T07:04:00.000+11:002015-11-06T07:04:11.947+11:00Curing scabies in children and adults naturally<div class="MsoNormal">
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where it makes burrows causing a lot of damage and leaves the afflicted with
intense crawling, itching, and hurting sores. Transmission occurs mainly via
skin to skin contact, such as when hugging or even just briefly touching (such
as a swipe, bumping into someone when walking past, or a handshake even). The
doctors will prescribe pesticide cream but we sought an alternative way to cure
the infestation. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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and in 2, and 4 year old children (my daughters) and a 40 year old parent, we
used a salt bath (1 cup salt / 20 liters water) and soaked in that for 15-30
minutes per day, every day for two weeks (I have read it doesnāt need to be
that long but just to be on the sure side). It is important that everyone in
the house has a bath or they act as potential carriers. Any salt (sodium
chloride) will work well. I used rock salt because it was cheapest. Make sure
the head is frequently wetted and only lightly pat dry (The doctors told us the
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is also interesting to note that neem works much better when it is diluted. We
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Ursula Cillerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01275645532802787375noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2574264558405640354.post-82107639163317801622014-01-06T16:34:00.000+11:002014-01-06T16:34:06.091+11:00Our young cremello stallion Otto as he leads without a bridle, halter, or rope - following the whip.<br />
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<br />Ursula Cillerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01275645532802787375noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2574264558405640354.post-63292241723149074392013-03-24T05:00:00.000+11:002013-04-07T12:39:43.195+10:00A watercolour portrait of Black Caviar, the famous Australian thoroughbred racehorse.<br />
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Ursula Cillerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01275645532802787375noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2574264558405640354.post-73772272620682508262013-03-12T01:00:00.000+11:002014-10-23T15:06:51.100+11:00When Simple Becomes Tough<!-- START TOP CODE --><br />
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<strong>Welcome to the March 2013 Carnival of Natural Parenting: Tough Conversations</strong><br />
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<em>This post was written for inclusion in the monthly Carnival of Natural Parenting hosted by <a href="http://www.hobomama.com/2013/03/sneaky-people.html" target="_blank">Hobo Mama</a> and <a href="http://codenamemama.com/2013/03/12/talking-child-gluten-free/" target="_blank">Code Name: Mama</a>. This month our participants have spoken up about how they discuss complex topics with their children. Please read to the end to find a list of links to the other carnival participants.</em><br />
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<span style="mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Another example, when it is time for little one to have an early afternoon nap, I put her to bed. I would sing her a lullaby and bide her sleep well.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>She would throw her toy out and scream that<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>she needs it back, wee in her nappy and then demand a clean one (three times in a row???), demand that she needed to go on the potty (even though she just went before going to bed), insist that sheās hungry, need drink (just after lunch)... the list goes on. Frustrating to say the least.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Now I sing her a song, kiss her goodnight, and go about my business. She still babbles with her sleeping companion toys for a little while (which I think is fine), but settles much quicker and sleeps really well. She has much less nightmares and is generally happier. Any parents who are confronted with these kinds of problems would undoubtedly benefit reading the paper that helped me. Hereās the link (</span><a href="http://www.guidancefacilitators.com/odds.html"><span style="color: windowtext; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-style: italic; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-AU; text-decoration: none; text-underline: none;">http://www.guidancefacilitators.com/odds.html</span></a><span style="line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-style: italic; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-AU;">).<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<strong>A bit of fun for unicorn enthusiasts!</strong><br />
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Check out the new goodreads quiz for the children's picture book, 'Crystal's Gallant Adventures: The Mountain Pass Back to Valley Flats' at: <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/quizzes/25284-crystal-s-gallant-adventures" rel="nofollow">http://www.goodreads.com/quizzes/25284-crystal-s-gallant-adventures</a>Ursula Cillerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01275645532802787375noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2574264558405640354.post-62999437000751387682013-03-03T00:00:00.000+11:002013-03-03T00:00:11.686+11:00Pink Lightning - Summer StormsPink lightning flashed at least half a dozen times - just milliseconds appart.<br />
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Ursula Cillerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01275645532802787375noreply@blogger.com0New South Wales, Australia-31.2532183 146.92109900000003-44.8310678 126.26680200000003 -17.6753688 167.575396tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2574264558405640354.post-10632807845814647712013-02-20T22:30:00.003+11:002013-03-09T12:18:18.134+11:00A fine cremelloHere's a fine cremello. He has two creme genes giving him clear light blue eyes, yellow hooves, and pink skin. No doubt related to Crystal the unicorn!<br />
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He has a placid and gentle nature despite his youth.<br />
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A cremello can have 'invisible' white markings. This young colt has four white feet (including a stocking and a large sock) and a blaze - pretty flashy!Ursula Cillerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01275645532802787375noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2574264558405640354.post-78087784375699782972012-08-12T07:57:00.005+10:002012-08-12T07:57:34.663+10:00New Children's Picture BookMy new children's picture book is on the way. Here is a sneak preview of one of the images in my developing book:
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I can't wait to see it published in the next few months.Ursula Cillerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01275645532802787375noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2574264558405640354.post-72502911179514254592012-05-08T01:42:00.011+10:002019-07-11T12:29:55.670+10:00Parenting with Relies ā A mixed bag<strong>Welcome to the May 2012 Carnival of Natural Parenting: Parenting With or Without Extended Family</strong><br />
<em>This post was written for inclusion in the monthly Carnival of Natural Parenting hosted by <a href="http://www.hobomama.com/2012/05/may-carnival-of-natural-parenting.html" target="_blank">Hobo Mama</a> and <a href="http://codenamemama.com/2012/05/08/respecting-parenting-decisions/" target="_blank">Code Name: Mama</a>. This month our participants have shared how relatives help or hinder their parenting. Please read to the end to find a list of links to the other carnival participants.</em><br />
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<em><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #464f4f; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; line-height: 115%;">For 1.5 years, my parenting experiences with extended family have been rich and varied. I have outlined my three strongest viewpoints on the pros and cons of such interactions. <o:p></o:p></span></em><br />
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<em><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #464f4f; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 115%;">Pros.</span></b></em><br />
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<em><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #464f4f; font-family: "symbol"; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">Ā·<span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span></em><em><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #464f4f; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; line-height: 115%;">Relatives can teach alternatives ways. This could include care of the baby or toddler such as bathing, feeding/nursing, methods of tying cloth nappies and swaddling, and new ways of supporting a childās development through song and playtime. Most of my babyās bedtime lullabies were learnt from my own mother.</span></em></div>
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<em><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #464f4f; font-family: "symbol"; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">Ā·<span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span></em><em><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #464f4f; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; line-height: 115%;">Relatives can provide a support network. When unwell or exhausted, my relatives have provided much relief looking after my little one as well as myself. It is so important for me to be close to them when I need some help. Another plus point is that I have someone to talk to who has already been there themselves. Becoming a parent is a major life event and opens doors of common ground with other parents. </span></em></div>
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<em><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #464f4f; font-family: "symbol"; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">Ā·<span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span></em><em><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #464f4f; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; line-height: 115%;">Many grandparents/relatives enjoy the experience of a new addition to the family. The continuity of life is beautiful and essential to many ā knowing that a part of their spirit will continue to journey though the world. Some also make wonderful homemade clothes for their grandchildren as shown in the picture (the jumper and the warm hat).<o:p></o:p></span></em></div>
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<em><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #464f4f; font-family: "symbol"; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">Ā·<span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span></em><em><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #464f4f; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; line-height: 115%;">Parents can be overwhelmed with not only dealing with a new baby, but also with a possessive grandparent/relative. When some people are around they seem to āsnatchā every moment to hold your new child. I often found this made me feel quite discontent and left out. When relatives only start to notice your existence ever since you had your baby (never mind the centuries you knew your partner previously) this really annoys me.</span></em></div>
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<em><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #464f4f; font-family: "symbol"; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">Ā·<span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span></em><em><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #464f4f; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; line-height: 115%;">A relativeās influence on your child can be negative if the raising styles clash with your own. This makes it difficult for a child to accept one style if it gets disregarded and superseded by another. The fuzzing of boundaries makes the child insecure and demanding. Some grandparents appear to feel it is a God-given right to spoil a grandchild ā this is something I completely dislike. For me, I feel I spend much time building a wonderful building only for someone else to come along and knock it down.</span></em></div>
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<em><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #464f4f; font-family: "symbol"; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">Ā·<span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span></em><em><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #464f4f; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; line-height: 115%;">Parents can be made to feel incompetent and frustrated. Sometimes all the well-meaning but poorly expressed advice can really put a pal on oneās feelings of being a capable and adequate parent. </span></em><em><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #464f4f; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; line-height: 115%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></em></div>
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<em><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #464f4f; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.5pt; font-style: normal; line-height: 115%;">Overall, it is imperative to keep an open mind to benefit from the experiences of relatives/extended family, and ultimately as a parent let others know to respect your own parenting styles through good communication.</span></em><br />
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<li><strong><a href="http://naturalparentsnetwork.com/dealing-with-unsupportive-grandparents/" target="_blank">Dealing With Unsupportive Grandparents</a></strong> ā In a guest post at <strong>Natural Parents Network</strong>, <a href="http://www.pistachioproject.com/" target="_blank"><strong>The Pistachio Project</strong></a> tells what to do when your child's grandparents are less than thrilled about your parenting choices.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://www.imafulltimemummy.com/post/2012/05/08/Parenting-With-Extended-Family.aspx" target="_blank">Parenting With Extended Family</a></strong> ā Jenny at <strong>I'm a full-time mummy</strong> shares the pros and cons of parenting with extended family...</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://meegs1982.blogspot.com/2012/05/parental-support-for-ap-mama.html" target="_blank">Parental Support for an AP Mama</a></strong> ā Meegs at <strong>A New Day</strong> talks about the invaluable support of her parents in her journey to be an AP mama.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://www.thatmamagretchen.com/2012/05/priceless-grandparents.html" target="_blank">Priceless Grandparents</a></strong> ā <strong>That Mama Gretchen</strong> reflects on her relationship with her priceless Grammy while sharing ways to help children preserve memories of their own special grandparents.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://www.aroundthebirthingball.com/newblog/2012/05/08/routines-are-meant-to-be-broken/" target="_blank">Routines Are Meant To Be Broken</a></strong> ā Olga at <strong>Around The Birthing Ball</strong> urges us to see Extended Family as a crucial and necessary link between what children are used to at home and the world at large.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://www.hybridrastamama.com/2012/05/it-helps-to-have-village-even-small-one.html" target="_blank">It Helps To Have A Village ā Even A Small One</a></strong> ā Jennifer at <strong>Hybrid Rasta Mama</strong> discusses how she has flourished as a mother due to the support of her parents.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://cincodemommy.wordpress.com/2012/05/08/the-orange-week/" target="_blank">The Orange Week</a></strong> ā Erika at <strong>Cinco de Mommy</strong> lets go of some rules when her family finally visits extended family in San Diego.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://ourmindfullife.blogspot.com/2012/05/one-size-doesnt-fit-all.html" target="_blank">One Size Doesn't Fit All</a></strong> ā Kellie at <strong>Our Mindful Life</strong> realizes that when it comes to family, some like it bigger and some like it smaller.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://alburnet.wordpress.com/2012/05/08/it-takes-a-family/" target="_blank">It Takes a Family</a></strong> ā Alicia at <strong>What's Next</strong> can't imagine raising a child without the help of her family.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://www.hobomama.com/2012/05/may-carnival-of-natural-parenting.html" target="_blank">A new foray into family</a></strong> ā As someone who never experienced close extended family, Lauren at <strong>Hobo Mama</strong> wrestles with how to raise her kids ā and herself ā to restart that type of community.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://toloveeverymoment.blogspot.ca/2012/05/my-mama-rocks.html" target="_blank">My Mama Rocks!</a></strong> ā Kat at <strong>Loving {Almost} Every Moment</strong> is one lucky Mama to have the support and presence of her own awesome Mama.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://livingmontessorinow.com/2012/05/08/embracing-extended-family/" target="_blank">Embracing Our Extended Family</a></strong> ā Deb Chitwood at <strong>Living Montessori Now</strong> shares 7 ideas for nurturing relationships with extended family members. </li>
<li><strong><a href="http://mommainprogress.blogspot.it/2012/05/doing-things-differently.html" target="_blank">Doing Things Differently</a></strong> ā Valerie at <strong>Momma in Progress</strong> shares how parenting her children far away from extended family improved her confidence in her choices.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://www.stoneageparenting.com/2012/05/08/snapshots-of-love-family-support/" target="_blank">Snapshots of love</a></strong> ā Caroline at <strong>stoneageparent</strong> describes the joys of sharing her young son's life with her own parents.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://ursulaciller.blogspot.com.au/2012/05/parenting-with-relies-mixed-bag.html" target="_blank">Parenting with Relies ā A mixed bag</a></strong> ā <strong>Ursula Ciller</strong> shares some of her viewpoints on the pros and cons of parenting with relatives and extended family.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://trueconfessionsofarealmommy.blogspot.com/2012/05/tante-and-uncles.html" target="_blank">Tante and Uncles</a></strong> ā How a great adult sibling relationship begets a great relationship with aunt and uncles from Jennifer at <strong>True Confessions of a Real Mommy</strong>.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://www.thebohomama.com/2012/05/how-to-successfully-visit-your-family.html" target="_blank">Tips for Traveling With Twins</a></strong> ā Megan at the <strong>Boho Mama</strong> shares some tips for traveling with infant twins (or two or more babies!).</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://maydela.blogspot.com/2012/05/parenting-passed-through-generations.html" target="_blank">Parenting passed through the generations</a></strong> ā Shannon at <strong>Pineapples & Artichokes</strong> talks about the incredible parenting resource that is her found family, and how she hopes to continue the trend.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://www.mommajorje.com/2012/05/my-family-and-my-kids.html" target="_blank">My Family and My Kids</a></strong> ā Jorje of <strong>Momma Jorje</strong> ponders whether she distrusts her family or if she is simply a control freak.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://theclearscamandrach.blogspot.com/2012/05/parenting-with-hero.html" target="_blank">Parenting with a Hero</a></strong> ā Rachel at <strong>Lautaret Bohemiet</strong> reminisces about the relationship she shared with her younger brother, and how he now shares that closeness in a relationship with her son.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://milliontinythings.blogspot.com/2012/05/textended-family.html" target="_blank">Text/ended Family</a></strong> ā Kenna of <strong>A Million Tiny Things</strong> wishes her family was around for the Easter egg hunt... until she remembers what it's actually like having her family around.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://mommyingmyway.blogspot.com/2012/05/two-kinds-of-families.html" target="_blank">Two Kinds of Families</a></strong> ā Adrienne at <strong>Mommying My Way</strong> writes about how her extended family is just as valuable to her mommying as her church family.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://wp.me/p2eZWf-cu" target="_blank">My 'high-needs' child and 'strangers'</a></strong> ā With a 'high-needs' daughter, aNonyMous at <strong>Radical Ramblings</strong> has had to manage without the help of family or friends, adapting to her daughter's extreme shyness and allowing her to socialise on her own terms. </li>
<li><strong><a href="http://www.lonehomeranger.com/2012/05/our-summer-tribe.html" target="_blank">Our Summer Tribe</a></strong> ā Justine at <strong>The Lone Home Ranger</strong> shares a love of her family's summer reunion, her secret to getting the wisdom of the "village" even as she lives 1,000 miles away.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://www.momeeezen.com/2012/05/my-life-boat-well-one-of-them.html" target="_blank">My Life Boat {Well, One of Them}</a></strong> ā What good is a life boat if you don't get it? Grandparents are a life boat <strong>MomeeeZen</strong> loves!</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://www.puginthekitchen.com/2012/05/dear-children/" target="_blank">Dear Children</a></strong> ā In an open letter to her children, Laura at <strong>Pug in the Kitchen</strong> promises to support them as needed in her early days of parenting.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://www.anktangle.com/2012/05/yearning-for-tribal-times.html" target="_blank">Yearning for Tribal Times</a></strong> ā Ever had one of <i>those</i> days where everything seems to keep going wrong? Amy at <strong>Anktangle</strong> recounts one such day and how it inspired her to think about what life must've been like when we lived together in large family units.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://crunchychewymama.com/index.php/i-dont-have-a-village/" target="_blank">I don't have a village</a></strong> ā Jessica Claire at <strong>Crunchy-Chewy Mama</strong> wishes she had family nearby but appreciates their support and respect.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://traditionalbaby.blogspot.com/2012/05/trouble-with-mils-ourselves.html" target="_blank">Trouble With MILs-- Ourselves?</a></strong> ā Jaye Anne at <strong>Wide Awake Half Asleep</strong> explains how her arguments with her mother-in-law may have something to do with herself.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://vibrantwanderings.com/2012/05/a-family-apart.html" target="_blank">A Family Apart</a></strong> ā Melissa at <strong>Vibrant Wanderings</strong> writes about the challenges, and the benefits, of building a family apart from relatives.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://touchstonez.com/2012/05/08/first-do-no-harm/" target="_blank">First Do No Harm</a></strong> ā Zoie at <strong>TouchstoneZ</strong> asks: How do you write about making different parenting choices than your own family experience without criticizing your parents?</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://www.amywilla.com/2012/05/military-family-separation.html" target="_blank">Military Family Separation</a></strong> ā <strong>Amy Willa</strong> shares her feelings about being separated from extended family during her military family journey.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://www.diaryofafirstchild.com/2012/05/08/forging-a-village-in-the-absence-of-one/" target="_blank">Forging A Village In The Absence Of One</a></strong> ā Luschka from <strong>Diary of a First Child</strong> writes about the importance of creating a support network, a village, when family isn't an option. </li>
<li><strong><a href="http://codenamemama.com/2012/05/08/respecting-parenting-decisions/" target="_blank">Respecting My Sisterās Parenting Decisions</a></strong> ā Dionna at <strong>Code Name: Mama</strong>'s sister is guest posting on the many roles she has as an aunt. The most important? She is the named guardian, and she takes that role seriously.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://theotherbabybook.wordpress.com/2012/05/08/multi-generational-living-an-exercise-in-love-patience-and-co-parenting/" target="_blank">Multi-Generational Living: An Exercise in Love, Patience, and Co-Parenting</a></strong> ā Boomerang Mama at <strong>The Other Baby Book</strong> shares her experience of moving back in with Mom and Dad for 7 months, and the unexpected connection that followed.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://alivingfamily.com/2012/05/08/a-heartfelt-letter-to-family/" target="_blank">A Heartfelt Letter to Family: Yes, We're Weird, but Please Respect Us Anyway</a></strong> ā Sheila of <strong>A Living Family</strong> sincerely expresses ways she would appreciate her extended familyās support for her and her children, despite their āweirdā parenting choices.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://onelovelivity.com/childofnatureblog/the-nuclear-family-is-insane-we-welcome-community" target="_blank">The nuclear family is insane!</a></strong> ā Terri at <strong>Child of the Nature Isle</strong> is grateful for family support, wishes her Mum lived closer, and feels an intentional community would be the ideal way to raise her children. </li>
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<p><strong>Welcome to the April 2012 Carnival of Natural Parenting: Kids and Personal Care</strong></p><p><em>This post was written for inclusion in the monthly Carnival of Natural Parenting hosted by <a href="http://codenamemama.com/2012/04/10/april-2012-carnatpar/" target="_blank">Code Name: Mama</a> and <a href="http://www.hobomama.com/2012/04/april-carnival-of-natural-parenting.html" target="_blank">Hobo Mama</a>. This month our participants have shared stories, tips, and struggles relating to their children's personal care choices.</em></p><p>***</p><!-- END TOP CODE --><br />
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<span style="mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">For bath time I always brew a strong cup of camomile tea to add to babyās bathwater (two camomile tea bags or two heaped teaspoons of dried camomile flowers steeped for 15</span> minutes to 2 hours in a cup of boiling water). This is excellent in soothing any skin irritations like insect bites, nail scratches, or nappy rashes. As babies like drinking and slurping their bath water, it is also very good for their digestive system. Our little one loves playing hide and seek with a face washer or watching the water dribble down when she holds it up. She loves to suck the tea bath water through her face washer and play with her rubber ducky in a bath of golden camomile.<br />
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<p>***</p><p><a href="http://codenamemama.com/carnival-of-natural-parenting/#carnatpar" target="_blank" title="Carnival of Natural Parenting"><img align="right" alt="Carnival of Natural Parenting -- Hobo Mama and Code Name: Mama" border="0" class="alignright" src="http://i233.photobucket.com/albums/ee159/lintpicker/CNPnaturalparent.jpg" /></a>Visit <a href="http://codenamemama.com/carnival-of-natural-parenting/#carnatpar" target="_blank"> <strong>Code Name: Mama</strong></a> and <a href="http://www.hobomama.com/p/carnival-of-natural-parenting.html" target="_blank"><strong>Hobo Mama</strong></a> to find out how you can participate in the next Carnival of Natural Parenting!</p><p>Please take time to read the submissions by the other carnival participants:</p><p><em>(This list will be live and updated by afternoon April 10 with all the carnival links.)</em></p><div style="clear: both;"></div><ul><li><strong><a href="http://www.thatmamagretchen.com/2012/04/rub-dub-co-bathing-in-our-tub.html" target="_blank">Rub-a-Dub Co-Bathing in Our Tub</a></strong> ā Bath time is more than soap and water! <strong>That Mama Gretchen</strong> shares how co-bathing with her toddler has opened up a world of cleanliness, learning, and bonding.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://growingslower.blogspot.com/2012/04/this-is-how-we-take-bath.html" target="_blank">This is How We Take a Bath</a></strong> ā Shannon at <strong>GrowingSlower</strong> shares her special formulas for babywash and a happy bath time.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://theartfulmama.com/2012/04/gently-trim-your-toddlers-nails" target="_blank">How to Gently Trim Your Toddler's Nails</a></strong> ā Shannon at <strong>The Artful Mama</strong> discusses some of the gentle suggestions she has received to help Little Man overcome his anxiety of having his nails trimmed, as well as how she copes with her need for his nails to be trimmed.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://ursulaciller.blogspot.com.au/2012/04/baby-bath-time-and-skin-care.html" target="_blank">Baby bath time and skin care</a></strong> ā <strong>Ursula Ciller</strong> shares some simple and natural tips for bathing and skin care.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://www.hybridrastamama.com/2012/04/want-your-child-to-love-getting-clean.html" target="_blank">Want Your Child To Love Getting Clean? Have Them Make Their Own Soaps, Shampoos, and Lotions!</a></strong> ā Jennifer at <strong>Hybrid Rasta Mama</strong> shares her secret to empowering her daughter to "get clean." Together, Jennifer and her daughter make their own body washes and lotions which makes clean up time fun!</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://presenceparenting.com/?p=4299" target="_blank">Encouraging Self-care Through Awareness... and Fun</a></strong> ā Amy at <strong>Presence Parenting</strong> shares some tips on how to transform self-care from a struggle into an opportunity -- for kids and adults.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://www.hobomama.com/2012/04/april-carnival-of-natural-parenting.html" target="_blank">Caring for kids' curls</a></strong> ā Lauren at <strong>Hobo Mama</strong> tells you how to clean, condition, comb, and style ringlets and waves on little heads.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://www.mommajorje.com/2012/04/playing-in-rain.html" target="_blank">Playing in the Rain</a></strong> ā Jorje of <strong>Momma Jorje</strong> loves how her family has come to make a <em>family event</em> of showering!</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://theclearscamandrach.blogspot.com/2012/04/cleansing-powers-of-football.html" target="_blank">The Cleansing Power of the Football</a></strong> ā Rachel at <strong>Lautaret Bohemiet</strong> talks about her son's favorite bath buddy.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://www.thebohomama.com/2011/04/coconut-oil-natures-baby-magic.html" target="_blank">Coconut Oil: Nature's "Baby Magic"</a></strong> ā Megan at <strong>The Boho Mama</strong> has only one must-have baby care item in her cupboard: Coconut Oil!</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://www.ourlittleacorn.com/2012/04/for-sensitive-kids-less-is-more" target="_blank">For Sensitive Kids, Less Is More</a></strong> ā Kadiera at <strong>Our Little Acorn</strong> finds less cleaning is better.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://ourfeministplayschool.ca/bathtime/" target="_blank">Bathtime: Just Another Chance to Play! </a></strong> ā Lyndsay at <strong>Our Feminist {Play} School</strong> discusses the many reasons bath time is important - getting clean isn't one of them.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://agiftuniverse.blogspot.com/2012/04/hygiene-what-hygiene.html" target="_blank">Hygiene? What hygiene?</a></strong> ā Sheila at <strong>A Gift Universe</strong> confesses some of her most embarrassing hygiene secrets.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://traditionalbaby.blogspot.com/2012/04/confused-about-chemicals.html" target="_blank">Confused About Chemicals?</a></strong> ā Jaye Anne at <strong>Wide Awake, Half Asleep</strong> describes how to find out where the toxic chemicals are in your house and tips on alternatives.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://wp.me/p2eZWf-8v" target="_blank">Clipping Those Talons</a></strong> ā ANonyMous at <strong>Radical Ramblings</strong> describes the ways her daughter's tolerance for personal care has changed over time, especially when it comes to nail clipping.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://www.authenticparenting.info/2012/04/sit-back-relax-and-unschool-hygiene.html" target="_blank">Sit Back, Relax and Unschool Hygiene</a></strong> ā Instead of focusing on tactics of how to 'get' your child to focus on hygiene, <strong>Authentic Parenting</strong> explains how to help your child internalize hygienic standards.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://positiveparentingconnection.net/531" target="_blank">Help! My Tot will not let me brush her teeth!</a></strong> ā <strong>Mudpiemama</strong> shares five positive ways to help toddlers brush teeth and sabotage the tooth fairyās secret conspiracy.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://little-willa-lamb.blogspot.com/2012/04/self-care-and-spirited-child.html" target="_blank">Self Care and the Spirited Child</a></strong> ā Amy at <strong>Toddler In Tow</strong> shares how a balancing act between independence and connectedness helps her spirited child learn appropriate self-care.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://naturalparentsnetwork.com/hair-brushing-is-safety-issue/" target="_blank">Hairbrushing is a Safety Issue</a></strong> ā <strong>Dulce de leche</strong> guest posting at <strong>Natural Parents Network</strong> explains that although tangles are not a safety issue, self-confidence and body boundaries are.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://codenamemama.com/2012/04/10/april-2012-carnatpar/" target="_blank">15 Ideas to Prepare Toddlers and Preschoolers for Dental Procedures</a></strong> ā Dionna at <strong>Code Name: Mama</strong> is sharing ideas on how to thoughtfully prepare little ones for dental visits (particularly those that require anesthesia).</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://childorganics.blogspot.com/2012/04/holistic-care-of-your-toddlers-teeth.html" target="_blank">Holistic Care of your Toddler's Teeth</a></strong> ā Erica at <strong>ChildOrganics</strong> tells a tale of her children's teeth issues and how she uses homeopathy and good nutrition to keep cavities at bay.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://www.africanbabiesdontcry.com/2012/04/bath-time-bliss-fuss-free-bath-time-for.html" target="_blank">Bath Time Bliss : Fuss-Free Bath Time for Toddlers</a></strong> ā Christine at <strong>African Babies Don't Cry</strong> shares how she has made bath time completely fuss free for both her and her toddler.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://cityhomeschooling.blogspot.com/2012/04/homemade-natural-toothpaste.html" target="_blank">Homemade Natural Toothpaste</a></strong> ā <strong>City Kids Homeschooling</strong> hosts a guest post on a homemade natural toothpaste recipe that kids will love!</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://www.crunchyconservativemommy.blogspot.com/2012/04/bathing-strike-strategies.html" target="_blank">Bathing Strike Strategies</a></strong> ā <strong>Crunchy Con Mommy</strong> offers her best tips for keeping your little ones clean when they refuse to bathe.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://wp.me/pMVLj-1eo" target="_blank">Bodily Autonomy and Personal Hygeine</a></strong> ā Mandy at <strong>Living Peacefully with Children</strong> discusses the importance of supporting a child's bodily autonomy in the prevention of abuse.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://toloveeverymoment.blogspot.ca/2012/04/tub-full-of-kids.html" target="_blank">A Tub Full of Kiddos!</a></strong> ā Kat at <strong>Loving {Almost} Every Moment</strong> has kiddos who love the water, so bathtime is a favorite evening activity!</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://mommyingmyway.blogspot.com/2012/04/trials-of-tidying-my-toddler.html" target="_blank">The Trials of Tidying My Toddler</a></strong> ā Adrienne at <strong>Mommying My Way</strong> shares the difficulties she has with getting her on-the-go son to be still enough to get clean.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://www.puginthekitchen.com/2012/04/wiped-away/" target="_blank">Wiped Clean</a></strong> ā Laura at <strong>Pug in the Kitchen</strong> shares her recipe for homemade diaper wipe solution to clean those sweet little cloth diapered bottoms in her home!</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://wp.me/p2ce7l-Lo" target="_blank">Snug in a Towel: Embracing Personal Grooming</a></strong> ā Personal care is time consuming,especially with more than one child; but the mama at <strong>Our Muddy Boots</strong> is learning to embrace this fleeting and needful time.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://trueconfessionsofarealmommy.blogspot.com/2012/04/ec-all-or-nothing.html" target="_blank">EC: All or Nothing?</a></strong> ā Elimination Communication. Even the title sounds complicated and time consuming. It doesn't have to, if you adapt it to meet your family's needs, says Jennifer at <strong>True Confessions of a Real Mommy</strong>.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://www.anktangle.com/2012/04/routine-battles.html" target="_blank">Routine Battles</a></strong> ā In a guest post at <strong>Anktangle</strong>, Jorje of Momma Jorje outlines a simple incentive to help inspire your little one to follow a routine.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://www.lonehomeranger.com/2012/04/redefining-beauty-for-my-daughter.html" target="_blank">Redefining Beauty For My Daughter</a></strong> ā Justine at <strong>The Lone Home Ranger</strong> relays her struggle to define her own femininity and how her preschooler unexpectedly taught her a lesson in true beauty.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://www.happy-mothering.com/04/beauty/personal-care/bath-time-peace-time" target="_blank">Rub-A-Dub-Dub, Three Girls In The Tub</a></strong> ā Chrystal at <strong>Happy Mothering</strong> shares how she turns bath time into a few minutes of peace and quiet.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://livingmontessorinow.com/2012/04/10/montessori-inspired-activities-for-care-of-self/" target="_blank">Montessori-Inspired Activities for Care of Self</a></strong> ā Deb Chitwood at <strong>Living Montessori Now</strong> has a roundup of Montessori-inspired activities for care of self and ideas for home environments that encourage independence.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://life-is-learning.blogspot.com/2012/04/10-gentle-tips-for-kids-who-hate-bath.html" target="_blank">10 Gentle Tips for Little Ones Who Hate the Bath</a></strong> ā Kim at <strong>life-is-learning</strong> gives 10 tips to get your little one into the bath and maybe even enjoying it.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://www.bisonweb.ca/blog/?p=1130" target="_blank">The Boy With The Long Hair</a></strong> ā Liam at <strong>In The Now</strong> discusses his son's grooming choices.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://vibrantwanderings.com/2012/04/personal-care-in-a-montessori-home.html" target="_blank">Personal Care in a Montessori Home</a></strong> ā Melissa at <strong>Vibrant Wanderings</strong> shares a summary of the ways she has organized her family's home to make for easy, Montessori-inspired toddler personal care.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://ourmindfullife.blogspot.com/2012/04/styling-kids.html" target="_blank">Styling Kids</a></strong> ā Kellie at <strong>Our Mindful Life</strong> is letting her kids decide what to look like.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://homeschoolblogger.com/novascotia/?p=785366" target="_blank">Clean Kids: Laundry and Bath Tips</a></strong> ā Kimberly at <strong>Homeschooling in Nova Scotia</strong> shares tips on how to get your children helping with laundry plus recipes for laundry and liquid soap.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://cincodemommy.wordpress.com/2012/04/10/clean-naturally-tutorial/" target="_blank">How to Clean Your Children Naturally: A Tutorial </a></strong> ā Erika at <strong>Cinco de Mommy</strong> shows you how to clean your children.</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://milliontinythings.blogspot.com/2012/04/cleanliness-is-next-to-dirt.html" target="_blank">Cleaniliness is next to... dirt</a></strong> ā The lapse-prone eco-mom (Kenna at <strong>Million Tiny Things</strong>) sometimes forgets to bathe the kids. Except in the mud pit.</li></ul><!-- END BOTTOM STRAIGHT LIST CODE -->Ursula Cillerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01275645532802787375noreply@blogger.com44tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2574264558405640354.post-72030916811551571832012-04-01T06:00:00.027+10:002012-04-01T08:04:15.640+10:00My Top 5<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Check out </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">My Reading Addiction's </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Best of 2012's 1st Quarter Top 5 BLOG HOP </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://myaddictionisreading.blogspot.com.au/"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">http://myaddictionisreading.blogspot.com.au/</span></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
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(Young Adult Fantasy) Brilliantly written fantasy tale about a slave girl named Pallas and her adventures through an unlikely fate.<br />
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(Children's reading book) An adventurous quest for the tiger cub named Wang to find a magical sanctuary - teaching about extinction, survival, and many other aspects in a fabulous way.<br />
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(Children's Picture Book) A beautiful tale of how Bilby learns about the cycle of the moon.<br />
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(Children's Picture Book) An adventurous tale of how Wilbur experiences the give and take of kindness.<br />
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(Young/Adult Australian fiction) Absolutely spellbinding story about a dingo called Shula.<br />
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<span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-style: italic; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri;">It is written that pride comes before a fall. This kind of pride, however, translates as a celebration of achievements - not haughty arrogance!<o:p></o:p></span><br />
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Iām proud of having a little baby daughter who will have a brother or sister in a few months. The journey of parenthood is the one I am most proud of. It is the greatest and most rewarding challenge, and a realization of my full potential as a mother. Children are the greatest treasure of life.<br />
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I have also just finished the biggest academic achievement of my life ā a PhD in physiology and hormones. This has been a lot of effort both before after my first was born. There were a lot of difficulties, but with understanding supervisors and supportive colleagues I have been able to complete this work. But please, just call me Ursula <span style="font-family: Wingdings; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;">J</span></span><br />
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Iām so lucky to have a husband who cares so much about his family. And to have a mum , dad, and sisters who provide a stoic team of support. I am also blessed with an unusual assortment of friends each unique and diverse. So many different countries, so many different beliefs ā but one thing is clear, they are all really good people and Iām proud to know them.<br />
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Lastly but not least, Iām so happy to have written and illustrated my first childrenās picture book which has been dedicated to my children. Iām proud to have sisters (including a twin) who share my enthusiasm for writing and drawing amongst other things. These are some things Iām most proud of.<br />
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Would anyone like to share your motherās pride?<br />
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Ursula Cillerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01275645532802787375noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2574264558405640354.post-54337140417374660972012-03-19T14:35:00.001+11:002012-04-15T20:37:32.881+10:00Tuatara ā a modern aged dinosaur<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi5Marxzh5s8S8Ck_0M-GvwFLFE3nIng9gdL4WpvEieI-aQ2S2G1Fm6rm97mEY9tqppM6tH8Q0qByPWvOrOI8kse18jrMasYnvOXF_JXXAYuqiM6L4kyVUakkaLf0v8fgkECTFA47QHecsi/s1600/tuatura+edit.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="207" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi5Marxzh5s8S8Ck_0M-GvwFLFE3nIng9gdL4WpvEieI-aQ2S2G1Fm6rm97mEY9tqppM6tH8Q0qByPWvOrOI8kse18jrMasYnvOXF_JXXAYuqiM6L4kyVUakkaLf0v8fgkECTFA47QHecsi/s320/tuatura+edit.png" width="320" /></a></div><br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;">Exclusive to New Zealand, Tuatara are the sole survivors of an ancient order of reptiles existent at the time of the dinosaurs millions of years ago. Although looking similar on the outside, tuatara are completely distinct from lizards, but share the ability to āloseā their tails when under attach. The tail then regenerates. They also have a primitive light-sensitiveāthirdā eye on the top of their heads which is only apparent in hatchlings ā thereafter this gets covered by scales. Tuatara take 15 years (<span style="mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Ā±</span>5) to mature to adulthood. After the male and female join, the eggs take 1 to 1.25 years to be laid, and a further 12 -15 months to hatch. Tuatara are active at temperatures as low as 4<span style="mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Āŗ</span>C which is much cooler then most other reptiles can tolerate. These reptiles are approximately 45-65 cm long depending on gender, and can live to over 100 years. Pretty amazing. I saw one in Sydneyās Toronga Zoo (pictured).</div>Ursula Cillerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01275645532802787375noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2574264558405640354.post-31409425812086241232012-03-13T13:19:00.001+11:002012-03-13T13:21:09.621+11:00Books for young brains<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi03Z3N7W3vHoqHnnauoJbKQJ9p8wSFOHgN6sHCIN6g1zGyP4dRXZkzr4x1H8HLKToEpWryD9yjQ1QymLTr3CQ5A3_U4SH36RJbx2WRz4k2Z79Ct01KQ-lJHFiuT0TL2kIOzinzV3dkY0fm/s1600/books+4+kids+image.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi03Z3N7W3vHoqHnnauoJbKQJ9p8wSFOHgN6sHCIN6g1zGyP4dRXZkzr4x1H8HLKToEpWryD9yjQ1QymLTr3CQ5A3_U4SH36RJbx2WRz4k2Z79Ct01KQ-lJHFiuT0TL2kIOzinzV3dkY0fm/s200/books+4+kids+image.jpg" width="175" /></a>Like a good teacher, an inspirational book is just what will make kids want to learn. I like books that are eduational, they teach something about life and the world, and show how to behave in ways I would want my kids to act. Positive fun stories to engage attention, promote good sleep, or encourage learning about how things work. One of the aspects of life in my book (Crystal's Gallant Adventures: The Mountain Pass Back to Valley Flats) is about having a meaningful role in society. This is shown by the books illustrations, which do not interfere with but rather enhance the story. Many problems stem from people not feeling they have a meaningful part to play in life. Thus it is important, at a young age, to nurture purpose and the diverse roles people can have in society.</div>Ursula Cillerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01275645532802787375noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2574264558405640354.post-19154274649645488162012-02-18T11:23:00.000+11:002012-02-18T11:23:54.431+11:00A shooting star<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjTNwAe9RHhGCtkNYcetYMKTrA-8w4oF7i9DHTXFFiu4lVgQmiXNIK8MWk2tpg9W6-Ki8yuAs0oRTvxh6jG95inObN47H0aDzA6rQo7EbhlfJ870Q8MjY7FFF5X6Aq07ZAn065NpfJJuWWA/s1600/Untitled.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="128" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjTNwAe9RHhGCtkNYcetYMKTrA-8w4oF7i9DHTXFFiu4lVgQmiXNIK8MWk2tpg9W6-Ki8yuAs0oRTvxh6jG95inObN47H0aDzA6rQo7EbhlfJ870Q8MjY7FFF5X6Aq07ZAn065NpfJJuWWA/s200/Untitled.jpg" width="200" yda="true" /></a></div>A friend of mine said her grandson, aged 6, absolutley adores my children's picture book featuring the unicorn called Crystal. He wont go to sleep without his mother reading it to him. To hear that feels like I've succeded already! A shooting star transformed into a wish come true :)Ursula Cillerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01275645532802787375noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2574264558405640354.post-3915021025795873852012-02-08T16:44:00.000+11:002012-02-08T16:44:00.897+11:00Ordinary People<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgHHDUSDgWiBUbia76i4zrfcwpXuxrEU1CYvZatiYDX5m2ay-c-Jl7erdBrqt486EsAGuW1lfkin4gWuI6O4a0HFJO9b7YtnAiT5oK2yuClTLBdtj3H2vSey_5QT1eFqC2MdrYi5Vben1r_/s1600/Migets.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" sda="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgHHDUSDgWiBUbia76i4zrfcwpXuxrEU1CYvZatiYDX5m2ay-c-Jl7erdBrqt486EsAGuW1lfkin4gWuI6O4a0HFJO9b7YtnAiT5oK2yuClTLBdtj3H2vSey_5QT1eFqC2MdrYi5Vben1r_/s1600/Migets.png" /></a></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;">When ordinary people without overt disabilities fail to understand and treasure differences then they are the one afflicted with a true disability. When my sister and me were in a class we were interested in learning, wanted to achieve, and knew some nuance about something scientific as I was able to answer some question (I donāt even remember the question). In combination with not wearing fashion clothes and being a twin (sitting in the same class), several university teachers labelled us as having Aspergers syndrome. They had come to the wrong conclusion, regardless, even if they had been correct it would have been nicer if they slowed down on the labelling and had enough wits to understand that normality is in difference. They tried very hard to crush us emotionally and academically however we are blooming - blessed with good family and a PhD graduation just around the corner. Difference is what makes people truly unique and special. We are all special and have personal strength and abilities just waiting to be found. I hope you feel special and comfortable just being you.</div>Ursula Cillerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01275645532802787375noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2574264558405640354.post-73319550588492475112012-01-28T12:35:00.005+11:002012-02-02T12:45:39.537+11:00Dragonfliesļ»æ <br />
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</tbody></table><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">ļ»æDragonflies eat mosquitoes. This is a fact that everyone should know. Incredibley fast and manuverable, the dragonfly is the eloquent carnivor of my choice. One researcher found a speed of 97 km/h, wow! They lay their eggs amoungst reeds and lillies in ponds and water holes. The eggs hatch into larvea that emerge from the water to begin the adult life as an insect hunter. No wonder I always saw dozens flying around early mornings and at dusk when the mosquitoes are on the lookout for some grub.</div>Ursula Cillerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01275645532802787375noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2574264558405640354.post-2551488317690347702011-12-21T16:45:00.004+11:002011-12-21T16:58:35.400+11:00Season Greetings<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><span style="font-size: large;">Our Australian Snowman people are already lining up early for Christmas this year - I can even see them from my backyard!</span> ļ»æļ»æļ»æļ»æļ»æļ»æļ»æ</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
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</tbody></table><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"> ļ»æ</div></div>Ursula Cillerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01275645532802787375noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2574264558405640354.post-17305906811537827082011-12-17T16:01:00.003+11:002011-12-20T12:38:59.076+11:00Unicorns in Australia<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjU-M5hb_G4MidlFRpjSCIk-0VZ4rUhIiCxBZ9-pt0wCrdKTnZdQIbQuVLSrsAgIVLwcMfz9Kb1tiRtYj94z3NIUIwsLFa2rApQnlNwiyEvciX4ePf3HXbBwndxuR340zhoQThLXtJIIoeJ/s1600/Crystal.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320px" oda="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjU-M5hb_G4MidlFRpjSCIk-0VZ4rUhIiCxBZ9-pt0wCrdKTnZdQIbQuVLSrsAgIVLwcMfz9Kb1tiRtYj94z3NIUIwsLFa2rApQnlNwiyEvciX4ePf3HXbBwndxuR340zhoQThLXtJIIoeJ/s320/Crystal.png" width="248px" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;"><strong>Crystal's Gallant Adventures</strong></div><div style="text-align: center;"><strong>The Mountain Pass Back to Valley Flats</strong></div><div style="text-align: center;"><em>Ursula A. Ciller</em></div><br />
A fantastic childrens book available on Amazon: <br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;">...and on eBay currently (listed for another 9 days):</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><a href="http://www.ebay.com.au/itm/Crystals-Gallant-Adventures-Mountain-Pass-Back-Valley-Flats-/120830260962?pt=AU_Books_Childrens_New&hash=item1c220b76e2"><span style="font-size: x-small;">http://www.ebay.com.au/itm/Crystals-Gallant-Adventures-Mountain-Pass-Back-Valley-Flats-/120830260962?pt=AU_Books_Childrens_New&hash=item1c220b76e2</span></a><br />
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This book is a major achievement for me. The product of a year's labour of love, the illustrations unfolded with the story of this noble spirited unicorn called Crystal. This tale combines the beauty of nature with rich fantasy and teaches children that kindness returns in often unexpected ways. For a backpage description please see my Children's Books page.</div>Ursula Cillerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01275645532802787375noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2574264558405640354.post-72089792526262730582011-12-15T23:09:00.002+11:002011-12-16T09:15:06.326+11:00The coolest beetle add!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiH4WhnIR8Lph9M6MuHB-UDHfoK7yaWxTOGBCBmEfLt2juwHd4nIUgzZhhgRpG2EFcZn6pI92sdfhSSSaCknfIECihBsTr3GgX36ile6cpKL7GFhAavpvhjyE_ngmbO-naKZpsecmckJOLq/s1600/the+bug.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="284" oda="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiH4WhnIR8Lph9M6MuHB-UDHfoK7yaWxTOGBCBmEfLt2juwHd4nIUgzZhhgRpG2EFcZn6pI92sdfhSSSaCknfIECihBsTr3GgX36ile6cpKL7GFhAavpvhjyE_ngmbO-naKZpsecmckJOLq/s320/the+bug.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><span style="font-size: large;">I scanned this add from a magazine years ago (c. late 1990s -early 2000s). Even though I much prefer the old fashioned VW bugs this is a great image!</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">I think they still made the old style beetle chassis in Mexico untill fairly recently. That must be the longest standing genuine chassis production of any make or model.</span>Ursula Cillerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01275645532802787375noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2574264558405640354.post-58644947263807073462011-12-10T11:53:00.000+11:002011-12-10T11:53:20.417+11:00Beautiful Rabbits<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;">It is presently raining which I really enjoy. Rain is soothing and refreshing providing youāre not working in the rain in the middle of winter. The air becomes buoyant prior to rain fall and the forest ground smells earthy when it drops.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;">A fantastic childrenās story written by Stephen Cosgrove and illustrated by Robin James is Leo the Lop. A 1977 gem, this story lets kids know that individual differences are the beauty of being oneself and that conformity is not always a good idea if you deny yourself your personality and who you are. The pictures are absolutely breathtaking. Iāll have to check out other books written by this author.</div>Ursula Cillerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01275645532802787375noreply@blogger.com1